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If you're in a hard place, you don't have to stay there...

This is not a forever-therapy.
This is a turning point.
Focused. Deep. Transformational.

Why you might be here ....

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  • ​​​you want to be less anxious and more calm and confident

  • you want less overwhelm and more resilience

  • you want less inner turmoil and to feel more ease

  • you want less inner critic and to like yourself more

  • you want less friction and more harmony with others

  • you want less hurt and more hope

 

Maybe you've tried changing your mindset, gratitude journalling, cultivating optimism, self-help books ... but it just doesn't seem to last. 

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Perhaps then, you might be ready for DEPTH-THERAPY.​

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Does it feel like time?

Time to step into your Truth.

Time to let your Light shine.

Time to be the person you are born to be.

 

Maybe you feel like, you've had enough suffering.

You want the courage to get beyond deep hurt.

You want to learn how to stop falling into the same damn holes.

You want to take ownership of who you are or who you can be.

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I'm not merely offering a fresh coat of paint. I'm offering that we work on building strong foundations. So you can create a solid home within yourself that let's you step into your LIGHT and live live from there.

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Trust me. I've been where you've been. I know how scared, hopeless, and anxious you might feel. But I'd like to offer you HOPE that you can grow and change and both be in the world and meet it differently.

 

You won’t be doing it alone. I'm here to keep you safe and co-regulate your inner system ... so the inner critic, the angry part, the defeated and hurt parts, no longer take the lead. We don't abandon them as they have protective messages, but their roles can soften and transform. These aspects of yourself can then support you to go out into the world, and perceive differently, feel differently, and behave differently. 

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You bring your pain, your barriers and what you want (or what you don't want anymore) and I'll help you learn how TRANSFORMATION is possible. 

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You’ll be offered a powerful integration of:

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Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a compassionate therapy that helps reveal how different parts of you try to manage pain—by guarding, dulling, or hiding it. True healing comes when we access your inner wisdom, your Spirited Self, and allow it to lead.

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Psychodynamic therapy uncovers unconscious stories and long-standing relationship patterns. By connecting the dots, it brings clarity to the ways you relate and manage attachments, creating space to re-establish healthier connections and learn new ways of being with others.

 

Psychology-led evidence based tools help you build confidence and restore self-regulation when you feel triggered. These practices support the deeper transformational work of living boldly from your authentic self and stepping fully into your light.

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Hypnosis – helps regulate your nervous system and lay down pathways of possibility. It primes your reticular activating system to seek and notice potential openings for flourishing.

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Coaching - which takes you beyond just naming your pain. Our aim is to move through it. Coaching gives you tools to take new ways of being out into the world, and test, retest, and refine, so you can EMBODY your new truth ... your updated you.

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Let's work together to help you with those parts that you no longer want holding you back: the self-sabotager, the inner critic, the wounded child, the people pleaser, the numb one, the anxious one, the controller. There is another way...

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This is your call to heal.
You’re not too much. You’re not too late.
You’re exactly where change begins.

Together ... your Transformation starts here.

Email me on hello@liveaspiritedlife.com

 

or ring 0800 447 359 x45 

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to set up an INTRODUCTORY 20 minute call

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Let’s chat and see how I can help you step into your LIGHT

 TAKE THE NEXT STEP

and email me at hello@liveaspiritedLife.com

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“I’ve struggled with low-confidence and anxiety most of my adulthood. These things have been real inhibitors in feeling like I can show up as my true, authentic self, particularly in professional spaces.

Working with Elaine has been an incredibly gentle, organic process of release and deep exploration.

What I loved most was this approach to understanding the many unique parts of myself, which helped to break down the confusion I often experienced at not understanding what was going on inside me.

This journey felt safe, natural and authentic, and I feel far more comfortable to take a breath and step back to acknowledge what’s going on, internally and externally.

I would highly recommend working with Elaine for anyone who has struggled with a sense of confusion, and is curious to explore things from a deeply intuitive and organic approach.”

M.H. (Auckland) 2025

“Working with Elaine has been transformative. She brings such a professional, kind, and deeply considered approach to every session.

Her ability to read between the lines, noticing what was  coming from the head vs heart, created a space where the sides of me, had space to be fully seen and understood.

My sessions were cathartic, unlocking or uncovering emotions and more understanding of my own operating system.

Elaine’s compassion and thoughtful questions allowed me to open up in ways I hadn’t before. I’m so grateful for the experience and the growth I’ve gained from working with her.

Thank you, Elaine.

A.H. (NZ) 2025

Working with Elaine was life-changing. Here’s my journey…

Before therapy I came to Elaine after suffering severe burnout and unimaginable loss. Within two months, I lost both my mother and my sister-in-law, two anchors in my life. This followed years of 70+ hour workweeks, leading a Covid response team, supporting my husband through a breakdown, and losing my brother during lockdown.

By March 2023, I collapsed. I left my job in October with no backup plan, mentally and emotionally depleted. I couldn’t even string a sentence together.

Elaine helped me uncover parts of myself I’d mistaken for strength. What I thought was resilience was actually my manager and protector selves shaped by past trauma. Her approach was gentle but deeply intuitive.  

From our very first session, something shifted. I woke up the next morning feeling calm, connected, and reassured. It was as if an inner voice whispered, “You’re going to be okay.” Doubt crept in later that day, but, unlike before, it vanished. That was new. That was healing.

I’m now more attuned to my inner world. When uncertainty arises, I can identify which part of me is speaking. I’ve learned to thank these parts for showing up. They’ve always been there. I just hadn’t noticed. Now, I honour them.

At work, when self-doubt creeps in, I pause and ask: “Did I achieve what I set out to?” I’ve stopped chasing impossible standards and started recognising the value in what I do.

What's changed? I’ve found clarity and a sense of inner peace. I sit with discomfort, unpack it, and move forward with intention. The weight has lifted. My soul feels lighter.

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For anyone considering therapy, you won’t regret it. Elaine’s approach is gentle, intuitive, and deeply effective. She knows how to guide you inward, to help you explore, heal, and become a better version of yourself.​

B.W.

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