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If you're in a hard place, you don't have to stay there...

This is not a forever-therapy.
This is a turning point.
Focused. Deep. Transformational.

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Why you might be here .... Maybe you've tried changing your mindset, gratitude journalling, cultivating optimism, self-help books ... but it just doesn't seem to last. You want real change that helps you ...

  • ​​​to be less anxious and more calm and confident

  • less panic and more resilience

  • less inner critic and more authenticity

  • less conflict and more connection with others

  • less pain and more peace

 

​Perhaps then, you might be ready for DEPTH-THERAPY.​ â€‹â€‹â€‹â€‹

I'm not merely offering a fresh coat of paint.

 

I'm offering that we work on building strong foundations. So you can create a SOLID FOUNDATION. When things are dark, it's hard to imagine the light but I'd like to offer you HOPE. It's possible.

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I don't just offer you 'techniques' that will counteractively help. They do. Temporarily. I offer to work with you to find the EMOTIONAL TRUTHS beneath your stories and theories.

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I'm here to keep you SAFE as you explore those problem patterns. Together we work with those painful parts of ourselves that express as symptoms and stop us from leaving a truly spirited, resilient life.

 

We don't abandon these painful parts as they have protective messages, but their roles can soften and most importantly ... transform. And when they do, these aspects of yourself can instead support you to go out into the world, and perceive differently, feel differently, and behave differently. â€‹

 

TRANSFORMATION is possible. ​​There is another way...

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This is your call to heal.​
You're not too much.
You're not too late.

You're TRANSFORMATION starts here.

Take the next step and email me at

hello@liveaspiritedlife.com

 

or ring 0800 447 359 x45 

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to set up an

INTRODUCTORY 20-30 minute call

Let’s chat and see how I can help you TRANSFORM

Follow me on Instagram

@liveaspiritedlife

 TAKE THE NEXT STEP

and email me at hello@liveaspiritedLife.com

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“I’ve struggled with low-confidence and anxiety most of my adulthood. These things have been real inhibitors in feeling like I can show up as my true, authentic self, particularly in professional spaces.

Working with Elaine has been an incredibly gentle, organic process of release and deep exploration.

What I loved most was this approach to understanding the many unique parts of myself, which helped to break down the confusion I often experienced at not understanding what was going on inside me.

This journey felt safe, natural and authentic, and I feel far more comfortable to take a breath and step back to acknowledge what’s going on, internally and externally.

I would highly recommend working with Elaine for anyone who has struggled with a sense of confusion, and is curious to explore things from a deeply intuitive and organic approach.”

M.H. (Auckland) 2025

“Working with Elaine has been transformative. She brings such a professional, kind, and deeply considered approach to every session.

Her ability to read between the lines, noticing what was  coming from the head vs heart, created a space where the sides of me, had space to be fully seen and understood.

My sessions were cathartic, unlocking or uncovering emotions and more understanding of my own operating system.

Elaine’s compassion and thoughtful questions allowed me to open up in ways I hadn’t before. I’m so grateful for the experience and the growth I’ve gained from working with her.

Thank you, Elaine.

A.H. (NZ) 2025

Working with Elaine was life-changing. Here’s my journey…

Before therapy I came to Elaine after suffering severe burnout and unimaginable loss. Within two months, I lost both my mother and my sister-in-law, two anchors in my life. This followed years of 70+ hour workweeks, leading a Covid response team, supporting my husband through a breakdown, and losing my brother during lockdown.

By March 2023, I collapsed. I left my job in October with no backup plan, mentally and emotionally depleted. I couldn’t even string a sentence together.

Elaine helped me uncover parts of myself I’d mistaken for strength. What I thought was resilience was actually my manager and protector selves shaped by past trauma. Her approach was gentle but deeply intuitive.  

From our very first session, something shifted. I woke up the next morning feeling calm, connected, and reassured. It was as if an inner voice whispered, “You’re going to be okay.” Doubt crept in later that day, but, unlike before, it vanished. That was new. That was healing.

I’m now more attuned to my inner world. When uncertainty arises, I can identify which part of me is speaking. I’ve learned to thank these parts for showing up. They’ve always been there. I just hadn’t noticed. Now, I honour them.

At work, when self-doubt creeps in, I pause and ask: “Did I achieve what I set out to?” I’ve stopped chasing impossible standards and started recognising the value in what I do.

What's changed? I’ve found clarity and a sense of inner peace. I sit with discomfort, unpack it, and move forward with intention. The weight has lifted. My soul feels lighter.

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For anyone considering therapy, you won’t regret it. Elaine’s approach is gentle, intuitive, and deeply effective. She knows how to guide you inward, to help you explore, heal, and become a better version of yourself.​

B.W.

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